July 22, 2017
Think of your existence as a continual, ongoing, never ending birthing process. It is easy for you to image your own birth as you witness that of others and you can notice and feel the wonder and excitement a baby holds. You also notice the needs they have and their incessant cries are calls for those needs to be answered.
You have difficulty understanding this later in life because you believe that something magical should happen to you once you reach a chronological age. Now because you hold this belief, you can inadvertently cut yourself off, so to speak, from that curiosity and wonder you held as a baby.
You could do nothing better now that to decide to view the rest of your life with those childlike eyes.
July 21, 2017
The next sentence may startle you, but it is one you would do well to attempt to absorb fully. You have spent your life thinking that you were trying to win the acceptance and approval of others, but in fact, you were merely using them to try and win that acceptance and approval from yourself.
Most people feel this on some level, and it makes complete sense because you came into the world and were taught that your primary goal was so conform or fit in. Most people find difficulty in that because, at the core of your being, you only want to be yourself with all the seeming crazy aspects of that.
Now you know what being comfortable in your own skin means.
July 20, 2017
This one act will provide you with the ability to create a happy life experience eternally. That one act is to decide to only offer what you desire to receive. Yes, that is the same as do unto others, but it is important for you to recognize the science, reason, and even logic that backs this up.
All things are energy and most importantly your thoughts. If your thought about what you will say to another is what you want to hear, you create more of that. If your thought is to offer understanding to another, it stands to reason then that is what you will create more of and receive.
While this process always works, you do not always decide to utilize it.
July 19, 2017
The other shoe does not have to drop! Screaming at you. There is an idea that you and so many others hold that signals to you that when things are going well in your life, that must mean that something bad is about to happen. There are so many things inaccurate about that sentence.
First of all, it indicates that you are labeling the events of your life as being good or bad, and you think the bad ones will bring you harm when precisely the opposite is true. What you think and feel are adverse events are, opportunities for your expansion; always.
The other thing that is inaccurate is, if you think some bad things will happen that you are waiting for, then you are actually creating them.
Decide to know that all events are helpful for you and when things are going well, keep feeling and relishing in that because it feels good now! The punctuation was necessary.
July 18, 2017
As you move through your life, you will encounter all manner of events, people, and circumstances. In each case, you then have a choice of which thought you would hold about whatever showed up.
If what is there or the person in front of you feels difficult or challenging, you can think this is there because I am a victim and terrible things just happen to me.
The other thought you could hold is that everything that shows up no matter what it might be or who might appear is because you wanted to know and fully experience how capable you are. You wanted to know that everything in your life has meaning and purpose which is only to help you expand in some way. Please choose this thought.
July 17, 2017
The most powerful thing you can do today is to focus on only the things you can do for anything less than that will be disempowering for you. That sentence may seem confusing until you attempt to accomplish this.
You will notice how often you go back to what happened yesterday and try to fix that, and that act itself is disempowering because it takes you away from the momentum you could be establishing in your life that is leading you to your goals.
The things that you can do are not things outside of your control, or what others may do, or even your thoughts about what might occur. You will notice how much fun it becomes for you when you develop this focus.
July 16, 2017
Decide to define yourself today and do it in as much detail as possible. As you are doing so, it is important to remember that you only have to start from here; meaning, that you do not have to attempt to carry your past, your mistakes, or your errors in judgment, to do so. Those were all the things you wanted because they provided you with the wisdom and knowledge you have today to now clearly define who you want to be.
You saw a statement earlier that said there was more value to be found in defining your fears, than your goals. That sentiment is true because the only things that have prevented you in the past from defining yourself or asking for your desires have been your fears. This will be the definition of courage.
July 15, 2017
The answer to the question you seek is, you no longer want to be controlled. When you examine the things in front of you right now and see them as challenges or obstacles, they are there because you desired to move beyond them, so they no longer control your life.
You no longer want your happiness to be dependent on the actions, thoughts, or words of others. You had a goal of the experience of autonomy, and there was no better manner in which you might achieve this than the particular path you are on.
None of this then is accidental, but always asked for by you to help you achieve your original goal of freedom, or not being controlled.
July 14, 2017
There is a formula for having a successful relationship, and there are no exceptions to this, meaning all forms of relationships are included. All relationships are also partnerships.
You recently witnessed a couple who had a successful business but then decided that their personal relationship no longer served them. Now because they had also formed a partnership with an intended goal and destination that was shared by them both, their business bond remained intact even when their personal relationship changed.
The initially agreed upon goal in that partnership was for the advancement and expansion of everyone involved. You can clearly see that combining energies in this manner helps all concerned. All of your relationships will be successful when you know your mutually agreed upon goal beforehand.
July 13, 2017
There is nothing more valuable and productive you could do today than actually to take the time to re-imagine your life. Every word used there is intended. You may wonder why this is important, and the fact is because today you are a different person than you were yesterday, and your desires, wants, and goals have changed. They have changed because you feel more capable of achieving them, but at the same time, you fear to make the changes in your life that you know are necessary to accomplish this.
If you re-imagine it all first, the journey and the process will not be as scary for you, and you will once again know your choices and preferences. The hard choices you make today yield excellent results tomorrow.