May 28, 2017
You have previously visited the idea of duality, and you would do well to do so again. All events, situations, and circumstances contain that duality, and you get to interpret that in a manner that causes you to feel good, stay motivated or inspired. In other words, you can see the good or bad, as it were, in any event.
You had an occurrence today that initially caused you to experience feeling defeated, frustrated, or unhappy. Then you decided to examine this event again and interpret it differently. This time you took the symbolism of the event and interpreted it to mean that you are in the process of where you desire to go in your life; you are cleaning out the old ideas and beliefs, quite literally, and that causes you to feel good and to stay motivated and inspired.
You can always make this choice.
May 27, 2017
You can choose to stop doing this now. There is a particular behavior in which you have engaged most of your life that most times escapes your awareness, or you have not been aware of why you are doing it. This can work for or against you, depending on how you use it.
You will do something in your present moment, doubt that it is any good by your estimation, and then come back to it sometime later and marvel at how good it actually was, and then wonder how you could have missed it.
You have often said to others that they do this because their desire is to get better. This is a helpful behavior when you know what you are up to, and harmful when you are not, and just think you are not any good.
At some point, you come to realize, however, that you can choose to stop doing this and appreciate what you do in your present moment of now. That is powerful.
May 26, 2017
You only thought you were not good enough. That is the one thought you have held most of your life that you have used as an excuse not to become the person you desire or achieve what you envisioned. Please attempt to own that sentence.
The entire idea of what is good is entirely subjective, made up by you, and then accepted by you. The irony is you notice this all the time in others, but fail to see it in yourself. You have done this because you also know that once you accept the fact that you are indeed good enough, there is nothing in the way but your fear, and you know precisely how to overcome that. You merely have to jump in and do the thing in front of you.
You have earned the right to be boastful. Can you feel that?
May 25, 2017
Because you were not finished. That is that answer you have been seeking when you have examined certain events, situations, and circumstances of your past where you questioned why you did not leave. Yes, it is no accident that the film and its title, “Men Don’t Leave,” has always stayed with you. It signifies an ideal that you have held of what it means to be a man and fully aspire to the highest ideal you can imagine of that.
In your situation currently, you have decided that you no longer want to be subjugated. Please study the definition of that word, so you gain clarity. It is no mistake that you would come to this awareness on this particular date because it takes you back to a specific relationship where you did feel subjugated, and now you desire freedom. Congratulations.
May 24, 2017
This one act would solve all your problems. That sentence was meant to be taken quite literally, and it is the answer you and all others have been seeking.
You came to the awareness that you were having difficulty with certain things you had done not because of those things, but because of what you thought others might think of what you have done.
You allowed circumstances to appear in your life at very different times that were puzzling to you and held no apparent rhyme or reason, so to speak. You could not figure out what you were attempting to gain.
You witnessed others amass large amounts of money and things, and questioned why they were not happy.
You watched yourself, and others do things that are an attempt to escape from the present moment, and you wondered why anyone would do that.
The one act that would solve all of this is for you to decide to love yourself first and no matter what you do. That is golden.
May 23, 2017
The only thing that is ever truly important is what you decide to do. While you have thought of the ideas of empowerment and autonomy, you had not fully understood how they work together and provide you the path you are seeking.
You have set up in your life certain situations, most times
unknowingly, where you might offer yourself the opportunity to experience these things. You attempt to control another in certain ways, and that halts your experience of empowerment because the other person holds the power. You set up a situation where others may feel they need you, and that halts your experience of autonomy because you then think you are responsible for them.
There is so much for you to gain here, and do not expect to receive it all at once.
May 22, 2017
Please decide to take ownership of your accomplishments, for when you fail to do so, you halt your own progression. All the words used in that sentence were used intentionally, and you would do well to study them.
Some time ago you began to label yourself as somehow being unworthy. The reason you developed this behavior is never as important as you discovering you have been doing it.
Now, this causes you not to acknowledge or take ownership of things you do in your life that you know are accomplishments and that you know you had an active part in causing to occur. Now you understand why at times you have not felt the pride of your accomplishments because you thought you did not deserve to feel that. Now actively decide to change this. Please.
May 21, 2017
Envision yourself bigger and then go about becoming that. It is imperative for you to gain an idea or a very real vision of who you desire to be before you become that.
You create your reality through the thoughts you continue to hold. As you move through your life, and because of the experiences you have, the wisdom and knowledge you gain, the possibilities of who you might be become bigger, but you will never manifest any of that if you are unable to hold that vision for yourself. You must become willing to envision that and then do all in your power to believe that, and move toward it.
None of this is difficult and merely requires you deciding to take the time to engage in the process. When you believe in limitation, you will create that as well. All of this is your choice.
May 20, 2017
Don’t throw out the baby with the bathwater is an adage you would do well to fully embrace at this moment in your life. An adage is a saying that carries such truth it resonates for many and lives on.
The baby then can be seen to be the emergence or birth of something new. That very something new is indeed the new you attempting to come forth. The bathwater symbolizes the difficulties or experiences of your life that at times feel dirty and murky to you, but you use them to cleanse that baby so that it might be born into a world that fully supports its growth. Apply this idea to your life right now.
While it is not necessary to have the difficulties to allow the birth itself, it is a system you have set up so why not use it willingly?
May 19, 2017
This one came as quite a surprise for you, but it was one of the best surprises you will ever experience. Yesterday you were witnessing the interaction between others and noticed, quite vividly, the practice of conditional loving. You could see that each person would only offer love to the other if certain conditions were established or
maintained. In this instance, love in its purest sense was not being offered.
You also had an excellent opportunity to pat yourself on the back, so to speak, when you noticed that you had recent experiences where you knew you were practicing unconditional loving with another, and that felt wonderful to you.
Now the big surprise is you discovered you had been practicing conditional loving on yourself. If you maintained certain conditions, or did certain things, or behaved in a particular way, then you would love yourself. That is a significant barrier to personal development. Outward projection prevents inner focus.