August 25, 2025
Self-acceptance is still a choice. We used the word still so you might remember the message we provided last year on this date.
But it takes time for you to accept your journey, your importance, and your ability to shape your lives and world.
We have also said there is nothing random or accidental in your life or world, and you figure that out as you continue your journey. You will understand today.
Reflection Questions:
- What aspects of your journey are you still struggling to accept, and how might viewing them as purposeful rather than accidental change your perspective?
- In what ways can you more fully recognize your importance and ability to shape your life and world today?
August 25, 2008
You desired to be the creator of your life experience on this physical journey and not the victim of it.
In other words, you knew when you came here that you desired to create your life by utilizing your very spiritual powers and abilities. From this place, you could then choose what you desired to manifest, not the other way around.
When you find your emotional feeling body dependent on your external physical world, it should alert you to the fact that you are off track, so to speak, in accomplishing your original goal.
Always seek to feel first what you desire to manifest, for that is truly the nature of who you are.
Reflection Questions:
- Where in your life do you feel like a victim of circumstances rather than the creator of your experience?
- How can you shift from letting external conditions determine your emotions to feeling first what you want to manifest?
August 25, 2009
It was always your intention to trust completely the integrity (look that up) of your physical life experience. Anxious thoughts then will always alert you to the fact that you have momentarily forgotten your very own mission.
You knew that you had set forth, as it were, all the right conditions, situations, people, and events that would allow you the very “advancement” you desired. In the past, you have lived in such a hurried and harried manner that anxious thoughts became “normal” for you, and you did not notice them in your present.
Now, this does not mean those very anxious thoughts should be denied or ignored, but used for your benefit. They may become your very own guides, so to speak, to allow you, in your every moment of now, to replace them with the trust you intended.
Reflection Questions:
- How can you use your anxious thoughts as signals to remember your trust in life’s integrity rather than fighting against them?
- What would change in your daily experience if you truly believed that all conditions and people in your life are here for your advancement?
August 25, 2010
Your experience of jealousy of anything at all is due to your own inability to recognize and own your worth. The nature of your being is complete, so when you have an experience of anything less than that, it is due to either your unwillingness to see that completion or your attempts to receive it from some outside source.
You would do well to allow yourself to consciously become aware of those experiences of jealousy, and they will lead to the particular areas of your life where you have failed to recognize that completeness and worth. You will continually be disappointed as long as you seek it somewhere else. Everything that is and was needed for your fulfilling life experience was given.
Reflection Questions:
- What situations or people trigger jealousy in you, and what might these feelings reveal about areas where you don’t recognize your own worth?
- How can you shift from seeking validation externally to recognizing the completeness that already exists within you?
August 25, 2011
You typically hold more disbelief than belief. This is not a judgment but merely a statement of fact of the physical experience you desired to have. You knew that holding that state of disbelief would arouse your curiosity, which in turn causes you to seek more proof, if you will, and that process of seeking proof always leads to some further expansion for you.
You desired to prove what was possible, not to merely believe that certain things were impossible. You only halt your own progress in this process when you settle for your own disbelief and find it difficult to believe there is something more. You live in an expansive Universe, so there is always more.
Reflection Questions:
- Where in your life has healthy skepticism led you to discover new possibilities, and where has doubt become a limitation?
- What would you explore or attempt if you truly believed in the expansive nature of the Universe?
August 25, 2012
You may experience conflict in your physical life when you think in one way and then act in another. The conflict only occurs because you have difficulty making certain choices. Those choices at times can be confusing simply because you have yet to decide on the person you desire to be.
Many times, that lack of decision is due to your lack of belief that you can indeed become that person. When you first consciously make that decision of who you desire to be, and know that you have all the resources available to do so, your choices become clear, and your conflict ceases.
Reflection Questions:
- Where do you notice conflict between your thoughts and actions, and what does this reveal about unclear decisions regarding who you want to be?
- If you fully believed you had all the resources needed to become your desired self, what choices would become clear to you today?
August 25, 2013
Any movement that you make toward your goal of expansion during this physical life experience carries some form or aspect of acceptance. It is not possible for you to expand then without acknowledging something that you come to accept. This includes people, circumstances, conditions in your world, or anything of a physical nature.
The only reason you are not able to practice that very acceptance is because you are holding some judgment, and you only hold judgment when you are operating from a limited awareness. You may attempt to argue that there are certain things that occur, or certain people where you cannot extend that acceptance and that they “deserve” your judgment, and that is a sure signal you have yet come to understand how that experience, person, or condition is in your life experience for the sole purpose of your expansion. Think on this.
Reflection Questions:
- What people or circumstances do you find most difficult to accept, and how might they be serving your expansion?
- Where are you holding judgment that might be limiting your awareness and preventing your growth?
August 25, 2014
Your fear of judgment is the biggest impediment to you becoming the person you desired to be. This one aspect has consumed a great deal of your life; it is intertwined in many of your thoughts and actions, and will finally be undone when you recognize that it is what has held you back, so to speak.
This is a very large part of your being, so you will not instantly see or uncover all of it at once, but the simple recognition that it exists will begin to propel you on your way. Fear of judgment means that you have made the voices of others more important than your own, and you hold the thought that possibly the judgment might be true. There is nothing about you to judge, for every aspect of you is perfect. That statement is your greatest tool to utilize.
Reflection Questions:
- How has fear of judgment influenced your decisions and prevented you from expressing your authentic self?
- What would you do differently if you truly believed that every aspect of you is perfect and beyond judgment?
August 25, 2015
What happens to you is never as important as your reaction to what has occurred. Your reaction will always indicate where you are on your journey to mastery.
This does not mean that nothing that occurs will not cause some emotional response from you or that you attempt to ignore what has occurred, but when you react from a place of mastery, you also ultimately experience peace.
An example would be that someone criticizes or attacks you about something you did or failed to do. If your reaction is defensive, then there is something within you that has not attained a sense of mastery on that subject or in that area of your life. If your reaction is one of being grateful, then it means that you welcome the opportunity to examine yourself and either make any changes necessary, or you find peace about it because you know you have found mastery in that area of your life.
Reflection Questions:
- What recent challenging situation revealed areas where you still lack mastery based on your defensive reactions?
- How can you shift from defensive reactions to grateful responses when faced with criticism or challenges?
August 25, 2016
You are not an accident, and nothing about your life is accidental. This message may be difficult for you to accept and understand at first, but if you do, it will also be empowering.
This is taking you back to a conversation you were having the other day when others said they were told that their births were accidental. No births are accidental. You are the soul who decided to be born, and your parents or whatever particular vessel or method you chose to use were of your choice, and your parents or whomever decided to agree to be used for your passage here. That is a very different way to think of your incarnation.
When you think that you were an accident, you may also feel that you were merely a victim of your own birth, so to speak, and then you continue living your life in that manner. You had a choice before you were born, and you do now.
Reflection Questions:
- How would viewing your birth and life circumstances as chosen rather than accidental change your sense of purpose and responsibility?
- What choices are available to you now that you might not have recognized when feeling like a victim of circumstance?
August 25, 2017
Nothing that occurred yesterday matters today unless you decide that it does. The understanding of that sentence provides you with the power to create the life you desire. Comprehending this will lead to the greatest truth of all, and that is, your point of power can only be found in your moment of now.
You have known this for decades, but continually forget because you have formed a habit of examining your past with the intention of lamenting about it, rather than examining it with the intention of discovering what you learned, or how it caused you to evolve and expand.
You know that your thoughts create your reality, and you are aware that you cannot hold two different thoughts at the same time, so it would be wise to choose the thoughts you know are creating the future you desire. You can only do that right now.
Reflection Questions:
- What past events are you still allowing to influence your present moment, and how can you choose to release their hold on you?
- If your only point of power is right now, what thoughts will you consciously choose to create the future you desire?
August 25, 2018
You are where you are in your life right now because you wanted to be. Now, you may initially bristle at that sentence until you understand it fully. Your life provides you with all the experiences, events, and people to show up so that you might accomplish something you wanted.
As your awareness expands, you begin to see this clearly. You can review past events and extract the value you gained from those. You are now more capable in every way. So your job now is to take what you have gained and use it to accomplish what you desired. You can envision it more now, so believe you will do what you intended.
Reflection Questions:
- Looking at your current life situation, what capabilities and wisdom have you gained that prepare you for your next level of growth?
- How has your expanded awareness changed your vision of what you want to accomplish, and what steps can you take now to move toward that vision?
August 25, 2019
How do you know what is real? We wanted to begin with that sentence for each of you to ponder, as is Roger. When you are born, you emerge into a physical world of density. It is easy for you to imagine now how disconcerting that might have been because you had become accustomed to the womb. Now, as you acquiesce to the very physical world, you come to believe that it is real, and you form a sense of safety in this world, as you did in the world of the womb.
So now, when you have experiences that take you out of what you have known physically, you experience a bit of fear, as you did when leaving the womb. Now we have a basis of understanding and will explain the story.
Several days ago, Roger received a question about our communications. The questioner was fearful that possibly our communications were some form of the occult. Roger held a bit of judgment, as he saw this person as one not open to the possibility of something more existing. Then last night, while he attended the show of a friend, Roger experienced a very vivid presence of the dead father of this friend. Roger has come to accept our communications, but this was new, and that old fear arose. You each do this as you evolve.
None of you know what is real for sure, so decide on the reality you want, and create it.
Reflection Questions:
- What experiences in your life have challenged your definition of what is “real,” and how did you respond to that expansion of possibility?
- If you could decide on the reality you want and create it, what would that reality look like and what fears would you need to move through?
August 25, 2020
You will aid in the restructuring of the world in this manner. If you had difficulty believing that you could possibly have anything to do with the creation or formation of your world, you have uncovered the beliefs that have been problematic in your life.
We will now bring together many of our previous messages for clarity. Attempt to imagine this scenario. You have always existed and experienced many lifetimes. Each one held probable realities you might encounter, which would help your individual evolvement. Each time you do this, you access and utilize more of your authentic self. You are never done with this process, but each lifetime you “work” on different aspects of yourself. We used those words as you will understand them.
In each lifetime, you connect with what we have referred to as your soul family. These may be people in your immediate family, but it is everyone in your experience, and you simply figure out how they are helping you. The other thing that occurs is that you become more empowered each lifetime because you have recognized and honored more aspects of yourself.
We said the United States would lead the way in this restructuring because it set itself forth as the leader. But in doing so, they did not honor every aspect of who they were and created a hierarchy, of which we have spoken, that makes it difficult for the individual to experience empowerment or simply feel powerful.
But the real challenge has been you. You did not think you could make a difference, but what will occur now due to your world condition is that you will choose to restructure yourself, which means owning and honoring all of you. Now you will understand why we have continually referred to the collective you recently, because now, you will aid that collective you in its evolvement by becoming yourself. That is all you desired your entire “this” lifetime.
One last point. You must be patient with the world as you needed to be with yourself, for you can see how you resisted becoming the greatest version of yourself, and quite literally, you are the world.
Reflection Questions:
- How do you recognize the people in your life as part of your “soul family” who are helping you evolve, even through challenging interactions?
- What aspects of yourself have you not yet owned and honored that could contribute to both your personal evolution and the world’s restructuring?
August 25, 2021
Chaos breeds unity. Today, we are giving you a message that some may find life-changing, others may find comforting, and some will find nothing at all, which would indicate a repeating pattern for them, which Roger knows all too well.
We are doing this in a manner where Roger is moving through a process that each of you is as well. It is why you wanted to be alive at this time in your evolutionary journey, and it will further explain why you wanted a significant restructuring to aid you.
The title of this message refers to your life, which is also being reflected in your world. Not understanding that concept has contributed to the chaos you have experienced in your life and your world. We are continuing what we said to each of you last Sunday, and that is, every individual holds enough power to cause massive changes in your life and your world when you accept the gifts within you.
That last sentence brings us to the chaos that has existed within you. You each have conversations with your guides, but we are more transparent in this conversation to encourage you to listen to yours.
Last night, Roger’s new assistant again asked for a quote to use for an Instagram post today. We told Roger to use this title, and he had no idea why. What we are giving you now is a glimpse into the divine planning of your life, and when you begin to notice it, you will also accept more of yourself.
After we gave Roger the quote, we led him to a documentary on Cuba, which not many of you understand fully, but there was one example we wanted to use. The residents did not know why they did this, but they loved sharing with others. Some attributed it to the socialist policies of the past, but they would not give it up because they felt unity. And one man whose family lives in the United States prefers where he is now.
We must segment this information, and we’ve told Roger to schedule live conversations again, for that is the chaos within him that is being restructured, and now it will help you. Roger received an email from someone he had a meeting with several months ago, where we gave Roger information for this client that turned out to be exactly right. Now an enormous opportunity is before them, and they asked Roger to coach them through the process.
Each of you holds a denial about your gifts, and if that were not true, their development would not surprise you as it did, Roger. We will leave you with that today, but we will continue the thread, and you will be fine.
Reflection Questions:
- What chaos in your life might actually be leading you toward greater unity with yourself and others?
- What gifts do you possess that you’ve been denying or underestimating, and how might accepting them change your life?
August 25, 2022
You will have to choose. You are moving through a massive restructuring in your world because you wanted to experience a significant change in yourself on your evolutionary journey.
Your journey is precisely yours. You each have soul expressions you wanted to allow to evolve now, for if you accomplish that, you also aid the evolution of your world.
We know those concepts and are challenging for many of you, but we provided help in 2012 when we gave a message on conflict. While you will witness more in your world, you are doing so because it exists within you.
Healing your internal conflict will aid your world.
We will leave that message below so you will understand it now, because before, you couldn’t. Most humans wait for physical proof before they believe something because they are living on the physical plane, but your world is moving somewhere else, and if you change now, your journey will be more joyful.
We knew many of you would not like change, but as we have reminded you, everything you want exists in the unknown.
Reflection Questions:
- What internal conflicts are you carrying that might be reflected in the external conflicts you witness in the world?
- What soul expressions are you being called to evolve now, and how might embracing the unknown serve your growth?
August 25, 2023
Everything you want is in front of you. We mean those words figuratively and literally. You exist during a time of significant change in your life and world, which we termed your restructuring.
You also entered an energetic shift in your world meant to provide you more time for introspection, but it will also bring up the unresolved difficulties in your life and world. The best remedy for this time is to do what is in front of you in your life. Then, envision the life and world you want as you create both.
We will leave a portion of a message we provided on this date three years ago. It will give you greater awareness over the next several days. We are also leading you to our live conversation on your upcoming full moon, which will provide you with an even more incredible opportunity to thrive, and that will come when you forgive yourself and love who you have become. We mean that for you and your planet as you all ascend.
Reflection Questions:
- What is literally in front of you right now that you might be overlooking as you search for what you want elsewhere?
- What unresolved difficulties are surfacing for healing, and how can addressing them help you create the life and world you envision?
August 25, 2024
Self-acceptance is a choice. It is also the one element you each desire in your lives, but when that opportunity is presented, you tend to reject it as you are still clinging to your old self.
This message is not meant to cause you to experience more self-judgment, as that has been what has held you back in your life and contributed to the difficulty you collectively experience in your world.
We have said you are moving through a major evolutionary change in your life and the restructuring of your world. That means there is something within you awaiting your recognition and development that will cause you to live the life of your dreams.
You used that term purposefully because it was the title our messenger used for his presentation yesterday, where he demonstrated the healing he has achieved through the work we have provided. He also noted how many did not register as that title was not something they could accept, and the same was true for our messenger.
Today, we told him to find the message we provided on this date a year ago to further reinforce the idea that nothing in your life or world is happening accidentally but awaits your recognition, which will be your self-acceptance and healing. We’ve provided an example.
Reflection Questions:
- In what ways are you still clinging to your old self and rejecting opportunities for self-acceptance?
- What within you is awaiting recognition and development that could help you live the life of your dreams?
Wilhelm
This video from last year and the year before will explain everything: “How to live the life of your dreams” https://youtu.be/dUsCEyuSBuc?si=YBGBXfkuaQZpV17y
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