September 12, 2018
Every person is born with what you think of as individual personality traits. Now, some of them you may judge as being good or bad, or positive and negative, in your terms. But understand those are all your assessments and have nothing to do with reality as you may think of it.
What is essential for you to understand is that every trait exists within you to aid you in your expansion when you know why and how. You have held a belief in the feeling of insecurity. That belief then causes you to seek security. The manner you chose to have the experience of security was by doing things that provided you with physical proof that what you had done provided you with the results you wanted, then you would feel secure. So that trait you judged has actually been a benefit for you.