October 31, 2019
The illusion of the impostor syndrome. Today Roger experienced something for the first time. We had him look up the definition of the word consternation. We did that because we wanted him and you to be prepared for what you will experience as you understand this message. The definition he found was feelings of anxiety or dismay, typically at something unexpected. The unexpected is this message.
Some time ago, it came to human consciousness the idea of the impostor syndrome. It meant that as you grow into yourself or what you want to create or develop, that you might be merely copying some else, or what usually occurs, is you think you don’t have those abilities and talents. We brought up Roger Bannister earlier, but now it will make more sense. Bannister broke the record for running a mile in less than four minutes, which had been thought to be impossible. After he accomplished it, others did so, and some in the same year. Those others were not impostors, but individuals who chose to be inspired by what they had now witnessed. That is how all human consciousness is developed.
When you understand this message intellectually, it will no longer be possible for you to use the impostor syndrome as your excuse for not becoming who you want to be and becoming an inspiration to others. The feeling of consternation will pass.
October 30, 2019
How to get over your fear of judgment. We wanted that long title, and we had to fight with Roger to allow it to come through. The reason Roger resisted this is that he knows this particular fear has been the greatest impediment in his life to becoming the person he wanted to be. You all have this fear to a certain degree, but you each will allow certain fears to hold more power. All of them, however, are unfounded.
Yesterday, Roger had a client who questioned why they procrastinated about doing pretty much anything. Roger said it was his fear of not being able to accomplish what he wanted or that they may not have the ability. Then it came to because it might fail, and then others would judge them. Roger knew that the law of attraction was at work because he was recognizing what he needed to see because he’s been doing it for years.
We gave him a message on this some years ago, and reading it now will be impactful for him and you. The solution he devised then was to do things that he knew might elicit judgment. He would then sit in the emotional pain of, allow it to pass and feel a greater sense of freedom each time. Practice.
October 29, 2019
Your life purpose will find you. First of all, understand that this message has been decades in the making. That statement will provide solace for many of you. Several days ago, Roger had what he thought was a “brilliant” idea to acquire new clients, so he created a contest. The entry condition included submitting a description of what they wished to accomplish or achieve through his coaching. Roger’s original intention became usurped by what he discovered, which was his life purpose.
It may appear to many of you that he has known and accepted that, and you would be incorrect. He doubted it until yesterday. As he read the entries, he saw right in front of his face every difficulty, problem, or challenge he had experienced in his life, so Roger knew he had something to offer now. Now is the operative word, which, as we said, this has taken decades. If it doesn’t matter how long it takes any of you to discover your purpose, as it is there, but it is your responsibility to live it.
Roger’s purpose is to help others find their purpose, and your purpose as well will show up through your life experiences. Lastly, many of you misunderstand the meaning of purpose. Your only purpose in life is to become your best self because that helps you and the world evolve. You all will come to know this with certainty.
October 28, 2019
You cannot screw up your life, but you can make it more difficult. We wanted a title that would attract more to read this message, and you will notice how anxious you were to discover its content. That means a part of you fears that you might be messing things up. You are not unless you are refusing to be yourself.
You each are born with intentions that you set forth, which you wanted to accomplish in your life. As you move through your life, there are signposts, so to speak, that will tell you if you are moving in a direction that will help you manifest your original intention. The signposts are your emotions, but only the ones that feel good to you.
Here is a story that will help you. Several years ago, there was a twelve-year-old girl who was stabbed numerous times by two friends, also twelve, who left her to die. Five years later, the “victim” saw the experience in a new light. Now at the grand old age of seventeen, she was thankful for the experience. Her reaction even surprised her as the words came out of her mouth. But she knew she was a stronger, more confident person. She came to that conclusion because no matter the circumstances, she embraced her instincts, the events of her life knowing they held value, and due to that, she gave us all
October 27, 2019
You create limitations in your life. That statement is true for every person, and it is not a “bad” thing, but one you would do well to understand. Roger had a vivid awareness of this, and it even caused him to experience physical distress while attempting to receive our words.
We will begin with a story that will illustrate the point. In 2016, Roger was filming a talk for a program he was creating. In it, he stated that he typically gets his information from those who have titles such as doctor. Roger said that because they had those titles, they were more believable. You can begin to see how Roger is creating his limitations. Several days ago, a friend sent him a video with Dr. Joe Dispenza, who is quite popular. Roger only listened today as he has a habit of avoiding things that he senses on an intuitive level would cause him to step outside of his comfort zone, as the video did achieve.
Dr. Joe spoke on “beings” he encounters, which seemed to mirror conversations Roger has with us. Then he spoke on healing. Roger has had a multitude of physical healing incidents and thought maybe he should talk about that. But then he talked himself out of it for, after all, he is not a “doctor.” You each have your credentials from your life experience.
We don’t have more to say on this subject at the moment except for the same theme we continually harp on. There is no hierarchy of beings. Everyone should study those words.
October 26, 2019
You never die. Not even Roger saw this message coming, and he also attempted to avoid it, as most of you do. First of all, you each will have life experiences that are pertinent to your expansion or evolvement, but they also offer the same to the collective
When Roger was quite young, he witnessed a family event he didn’t understand. An elderly relative was visiting his grandparents. At one point, the relative when into physical distress. Many others then entered the bedroom, and sometime later came out and said the relative was alive again.
Then in 1982, his grandmother died, and as she did so, she said to his mother, “all is well.” Now, this was the same woman who was involved in that earlier death incident, so she must know something. Then in 2010, his mother died. Immediately after that, he experienced communication from her that was undeniable.
Which brings us to last night. Roger was watching a television show of a medium who communicates with those who have passed. Roger now understood this on a different level, and because of his continued communication with us, it was no longer a “strange” occurrence.
When more of you accept that you have eternal life, you may start to live now.
October 25, 2019
Today we want you to save the world. We hoped that title would capture your attention. Many of you will initially think that is not possible, and that line of thinking is what has caused you to experience difficulties in your life. If you think you could not save the world, then you don’t understand who you are, and have not accepted that you were born to do something important. We have used that last line continually now because it is true for every person.
You have all been given feelings about something you might do in your life that would be meaningful, but then you start to doubt that it is valid. That is why we gave Roger the mission of speaking on self-doubt and deciding to move through it. This morning, Roger sat in front of his computer and saw a video that he knew we wanted him to hear, and he didn’t want to because he knew we would urge him to speak on this, which is uncomfortable for him as all of you. Your failure to believe in yourself.
Here are two important stories, and the years are meaningful. In 1979, Roger was living in New York City. He worked for a company and came up with the idea that the business could be done better and provide better service for its customers. The company did not want to change, so Roger quit and set off to create it himself. He retreated to his dining room and wrote his vision with no idea of how it would be done. Then “magically,” someone came along with the funding for the project. In 2009 he had another idea to do something better. Again, it was funded and provided an excellent service. But because Roger didn’t fully recognize the value of what he had, he sold his interest and now gets to watch someone else receive that money. Each of you does this in small ways when you don’t own the value of who you are.
We want you all to save the world today by deciding to take that thing you’ve been putting off and refusing to believe in, and start it today. Please.
October 24, 2019
Things are not falling apart; they are coming together. None of you accept that premise easily while you are in the midst of some challenging or difficult experience, but it is always true.
First of all, you relate the events and circumstances of your life in physical terms, meaning your money and possessions. What you want in your life, however, is to become more. That is always merely becoming willing to be yourself. When you refuse to do that, you allow those experiences to show up to alert you to the fact you are not doing that.
But eventually, you come to understand this on a deep level, as Roger did this morning. He awakened to upsetting news but had a different reaction than usual. Roger knew that what was in front of him was created by him because he was unwilling to own himself.
Attempt to think of it in this way, which we had Roger hear this morning. A diamond is created out of pressure, and at times you place that pressure on yourself to finally be the diamond.
October 23, 2019
You never wanted perfection. We are using the word wanted to remind you that you desired all of your life experiences. Even the ones that don’t feel good or comfortable for you. Additionally, many of your events bring you a plethora of information if you are willing to receive it. Such was the case for Roger.
Yesterday, he was involved in a meeting that went really well. But there was one uncomfortable exchange. After, Roger noticed where he might have misunderstood something or misspoke. Now what he did was focus on what went wrong, as it felt to him, rather than what was achieved throughout the event. You all do this to some degree. But there is a reason for it. You were born into the world.
When you are born, you must rely on others to show you around. You then inject all manner of authority into those people. Now you even go into formal education where you are taught there are right and wrong answers to everything. And you must find the right answers. Now when you don’t do that, you label yourself as being a wrong person because you achieved a wrong conclusion. Then you become fearful of doing anything at all for fear of being wrong again.
How could you come to know what was right for you unless you knew what wasn’t?
October 22, 2019
Your life will reveal your mission. We know that many will think they don’t have a mission, but you do. Attempt to accept this premise, and for some of you, it will be transformative. And others, at the very least, will feel better about themselves.
Imagine that before you were born, you saw the world and came upon parts of it you felt could use improvement. You then decided that was the role you would take on because you knew that your contribution would help fill that hole you saw in the world. As you move through your life then, you feel internally feelings and emotions that inexplicably draw you to certain people and places, and cause you to take specific actions. The experiences that cause you to experience joy are indications you stumbled upon your mission.
Yesterday we gave Roger a message on self-doubt. He had such a reaction to this, and it felt to him as if he had discovered the holy grail. Roger called many others to make sure that what he thought he found was valid. Finally, he accepted it. No one else would have a more exciting reaction to your realization of your mission than you. You come to understand your mission at the right time in your life.
Roger has now accepted his mission is to help others move beyond self-doubt because he struggled with it and is deciding to move through it. He could not have achieved this earlier in his life and offer the full value of his mission. You each have your mission, so please fulfill it.