January 2, 2018
You allow all of your life experiences to occur, and you do so with an intention, as do all others. That intention is always to become more or expand. Now you don’t always accept this, especially when you find yourself in difficult or challenging situations, but even then that above sentence is correct.
Now you all do this in different ways, and you only are seeking to understand yours. One way you have utilized is a system of fear and reward. While this is never necessary for anyone to do, you have found it useful. You will allow conditions of your life to become fearful for you so that you might do something to change it. Then when you know you have made a change in some way, you then receive the reward. The reward for you every time has been self-acceptance.
Now you understand that you could spare yourself the fear if you chose to first move into that long desired self-acceptance.