October 1, 2017
You can’t skip this step. You recently charted what you thought were the essential steps one must take to experience empowerment in their lives. One of those steps is becoming willing to accept total responsibility for your life, and that includes how you feel emotionally.
You had an emotionally upsetting experience where it has become clear that the only reason you were experiencing this is that you were attempting to skip the most important step and that was, putting yourself first.
You know this is true for you when you say no to another an feel guilt. Now you know what you want to develop, and you know that when you put yourself first, you will be in a position to do far more for others.